I am not hiding my face behind my face when I say this: “I’m a lover girl in her 30s.”

I used to feel like I had to tone that part of me down. I felt that being soft, romantic, or openly desiring love made me seem naïve after all the heartbreak I have encountered. Society often tells us to be cautious, guarded and remain with a plan while strategizing. 

pexels

Whew. One and a half million views in 30 days. No get rich quick schemes, pranks, no dancing to go-viral audios or no embarrassing my kids for views. Just raw, real, unfiltered posts. Can I say something too? I’m proud of myself.

Let’s talk about what happened last weekend. This was on Good Friday night too. I had to take a minute to regroup mentally after this because some folks play for a reaction from you. When they do not get the reaction, they start questioning their own intentions from the jump.

Pexels

Being a single mom right now means balancing work and kids. However, I still have to make time for myself in the midst of everything. I have been dedicated to finding reliable child care, especially on weekends. I have came up with a way to still be able to have a life outside of motherhood while working a 9-5 and without help of the co-parent on rotating weekends. 

SHVETS